Wednesday, December 8, 2010

More Christmas...

This year I did some shopping at St. Louise Gift and Thrift Store, where I also happen to work! We get absolutely great donations. Here's what I did with some of them...
Some of the little birds on this tree were purchased at a real deal!


This holy family was on the shelf for a week. I kept thinking to myself. " If no one buys it today, I will" After a week, I knew it was destined to come home with me.



I actually purchased this chalk board a couple of months ago. It's great to use as a place to leave notes, but also is fun to spread some holiday cheer. Here I can whine about the weather and be festive at the same time!

I was never a thrift store shopper until I became associated with Catholic
Social Services of Southern Nebraska 6 years ago. St. Louise is an awesome store, unlike any other thrift store I have ever seen. My problem now is trying to not buy too much!

Saturday, December 4, 2010

Tis the Season

Most who know me understand I have a love/hate relationship with Christmas. I love the day, Love the reason we celebrate. I just hate the fact the the season starts so early and seems to be totally tied to the national economy. Buy more, buy early, spend, spend, spend. I get stressed and always put things off which makes me more stressed...and so on and so on. So this year I decided to decorate the house early. (early for me anyway) We had a fantastic Thanksgiving with family, an ever growing family as we happily learned that Andrew is engaged to Kelly. I had a wonderful family, a clean house and 2 days before I had to go back to work. I was feeling the whole Christmas thing. So decorate I did. I must admit it is a good feeling to have it done and be able to come home from work and enjoy it. I took a few pictures...
Found the birdcage at the Thrift store and added the greenery and birds...

Found this cute wine bottle with lights at the store as well!

Sunday, October 10, 2010

craft project

Now that I am no longer in the ranks of the full time workers, I thought I would have lots of time to do all the things I have been putting off for so long. But for some reason I still don't have enough time! But I did manage to make these cute little fabric flowers. I have all kinds of plans for future craft projects. ( I have all kinds of plans for organizing and deep cleaning my house too...) But the weather has been so fantastic lately that I find I am spending lots of time outside.I know that winter will be here soon enough and I will be inside with time enough to craft away, and clean my house, I suppose...Until then I will soak up as much of this fine sunshine as possible. Last year at this time we had our first snow. 1 inch on the 10th of October. Today it was in the 70s and a couple of days ago we hit 91. LOVE IT !!!!

Disney




Bede and I just returned from a trip to Disney World. Bede presented a paper for the College of Business at a conference for Academic Advisers and I went along for the ride. It was fun, and his presentation was a hit. We went to Epcot and the Magic Kingdom. I also hung out at the Boardwalk and Downtown Disney. Those are free places... full of shops and restaurants. At least they don't charge you to shop! We had a good time, but both of us admit that we've been there and done that. Epcot is cool, little villages representing countries of the world. One night we ate at the Rose and Crown Pub. Bede went native and had "bangers and mash" for dinner. I had the authentic fish and chips. We were served by a delightful young lady from the UK. It was fun. But we still would rather visit the real thing.
The Magic Kingdom has lost a little of it's magic in my opinion. It could use some refurbishing. So many of the rides are exactly the same as they were 20 years ago. Pirates of the Caribbean is fun, but no surprises aside from Johnny Depp, I mean Captain Jack Sparrow, popping up 2 or 3 times. The Haunted house is exactly the same, as is the Jungle Cruise.
Except they no longer shoot the hippo as it seems to attack the boat. I guess that was politically incorrect...
The boat captain even tells joke after corny joke at the expense of the ride. They know its old and they make fun of the fact. It seems to me that if you are going to charge people a mortgage payment to enter the park, it should have something new and exciting. All in all I did enjoy myself. It was the first time I have been on a trip where I had no commitments or time restraints. I could go where I wanted and do whatever I felt like each morning and then Bede and I would meet up and go together in the late afternoon. It was very relaxing.

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Crazy cat ladies

Just watched a pet hoarding program on the animal channel. Don't know why, but I am fascinated by hoarders. Pet hoarders are the most odd. Most pet hoarders are women and most hoard cats. All lonely, lonely, and sad people.

How many cats does it take to become a crazy cat lady??? 2 Yea, that's 2 more cats than anyone should have.

One woman on this program actually had 95 cats in her home. The poor unsuspecting couple who moved in next door during the dead of winter, found out about the cats as spring set in and they tried to spend time outside. The cat smell was overpowering. Crazy cat lady thinks they should mind their own business and leave her alone.

I could almost smell the cats myself through the tv. I feel like I need to vacuum...

Why are they always cat lovers? I've never heard of a crazy fish lady, or crazy dog lady.

Cats...crazy, creepy.

UNL has lots of feral cats that hang out on campus. Most hang out in front of the college of business. The crazy cat ladies feed them, with permission from the university. They are all ladies, all odd, single (I'm sure) and CRAZY. The university had them all rounded up and spayed and neutered. ( the cats, not the crazy cat ladies...) But everyone knows that other cats have joined the free food and crazy lady attention. They breed, multiply, they kill song birds on campus. They scare people walking on campus as they dart out from the bushes. They're just creepy. But the crazy cat ladies keep them happy.


Personally I think the world would be a better place if it were cat less!

Saturday, August 28, 2010

Dream Big


I have a few big dreams. Just a few... One is becoming the owner of a red convertible. Oh yes! One day it shall be mine. I had a convertible MGB when I was a senior in High School. It was a fun car. A piece of junk, more often broke down than not. But I loved her.
I got to drive a little red convertible recently. It was an item to be auctioned for a fund raiser. It needed to be moved from one garage to another about 1/2 mile away. It took me 45 minutes to get it there. I kept missing the left turn, had to go several blocks in order to turn around safely. Then somehow I kept missing the driveway. As I drove. I honked and waved at almost everyone. This was a magical car. I felt 20 and thin!
I almost cried when I finally had to reach my destination.
I have wanted a red convertible for many years, and this experience made me realize that some day I will own one. Oh Yes! One day it shall be mine!
So I have started a fund. My little red convertible fund. A little here, a little there..barring any further appliance breakdowns or major home repairs this dream will become a reality.
I also have begun the CPS (car protective services). I notice occasionally someone driving a convertible on the streets of Lincoln. Beautiful day...top up!!! Are you crazy???
I'm going to tell them they are in violation of the CPS code for convertible enjoyment. What's the matter? Too windy? Messing up your hair? Can't hear the radio? Then, my friend, you should not be the owner of said convertible. " Step out of the car. I need to take possession." "This vehicle needs to be driven by someone who appreciates the fact that it is a convertible. Beautiful day = Top down."
Even on a not so perfect day...top down! Unless it's raining or below 30 degrees...top down!

I have a dream...

Saturday, August 21, 2010

Summer Noise

The cicadas are singing their summer song.

Not a 10, no beat and I can't dance to it.

They sing of heat, long days, longer evenings and air so thick it drips down the outside of my glass.

The neighborhood owl is voicing his opinion as well.

I feel more harmony with this group than the rain slapping against my windows in fall or the silent snow that falls in winter.

Summer noises remind me of happy times.

Bare feet on hot streets,

heading home as the street lights came on.

Cool pools,small bikinis, Beach Boys singing about California girls.

California hot days eased into fog cooled evenings.

The east coast, the south and here in the Middle, evenings are hot days without the sun.

Summer 24/7

I imagine Blanche Duboise fanning herself and dabbing the perspiration from her neck with her delicate handkerchief.

I hear Scout and Jeb running home at dusk.

Great stories of hot, humid summer nights.

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Hot,hot,hot

Just saw a story on our local nightly news about hot cows. Not hot like...beautiful bovine babes, but hot because it's 100 freaking degrees outside. It's been sizzling for days. People are melting,we are warned daily of the dangers of being outdoors too long. So yeah, I guess cows are hot too. Did you know that a cow's temperature is normally around 100 degrees? Me neither! Evidently because of our current heat wave, the cows have a temp of 103. Good to know. I guess I should be more compassionate, but it's too hot! Heat, especially prolonged heat, makes people crabby. Drivers cut you off, checkout ladies are sullen and when they wish you a good day, you know they really don't mean it. I'm crabby, I don't care if the cows are hot, we're all hot. Next thing you know, we'll be seeing cows swimming at the local pool, having a blizzard at the Dairy Queen, demanding air conditioned barns.

Actually cows at the Dairy Queen would be funny...I would laugh, but I'm too hot.

Friday, August 6, 2010

Time well spent

How did it get to be August 6th? How did it get to be 2010? What happened to 2000-2009?

The speeding up of time is in direct proportion to age. The older we get, the faster time goes. No one can convince me that time is consistent, always the same. At 5 years old, 3 minutes in time out feels like an eternity. At 50 years old, a year seems like 3 minutes. My children are 30, 29 and 23 years old. How did that happen? I know by the time many woman are my age they are grandmothers many times over. But I feel unready...for grandchildren...for adult children. 54 years on this earth...unbelievable!
I remember, as a young mother, often alone with small kids, wishing for the weekend, or the day when their father gets home from deployment. Wishing it were bedtime, wishing it was Summer, etc. Always wishing time away. Even then I remember thinking one day I will rue the day I wished my life away. We all know it is fleeting. We all know we are not long for this world. What we don't understand when we are young, is that one day we will look back on a life (hopefully well lived) and wonder where it went and how did it all go so fast.
That, my dear friends is the true sign of age. When we realize that we are mortal and want to hold on to every second forever.

I stood off to the side of the dance floor at my daughter's recent wedding reception. I knew it was all happening so fast. I took a moment to watch and take it all in. I wanted to capture this moment in time, to savor it, to keep it. I realized that we have a finite number of these special times. I knew I needed to treasure each moment, to hold sacred each child. I know I need to cherish every day, every hug, kiss ,visit. I understand better now why my,mother, in the last years of her life would keep me on the phone for hours. I get it now. She wanted to spend time with me, even if we could not be together. She knew the importance of time. We have just a limited amount of it. We must learn to use it wisely.

Time with family, friends is always well spent.
Time is like money, it should not be wasted, but used well. Time well spent, will make us rich indeed.

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Reality show blues...


Right now on the Telly...
Mothers pimping out their 4 year olds (toddlers and tiaras),
A lesbian couple who hoard animals on the animal planet channel,
Couples who spy on each other as they secretly date, (cheaters),
Families who cannot clean their homes, and live in chaotic filth until strangers clean it all up, (clean house).


I know it's because I'm a geezer, but I just don't understand the rational behind these people who want...(need) to let the world in on all their creepy secrets.
Every time I flip through the vast wonderland of CRAP, I see and hear stuff that should never be made public information.
I DON'T want to know...I DON'T care.

Where is the Brady Bunch when you need them?
How about another Full House or Save by the Bell?
What do families watch? What does a father watch sitting next to his 10 year old daughter?
I get embarrassed and I'm sitting here all by myself. I get offended too. We're better than this.

I pay a lot of money for this drivel...maybe I'm the one with the problem...

Sunday, July 25, 2010

A good man...

We said goodbye to a good man this week. My father in law died on Monday. Bede and I had gone to Idaho the week before to spend time with him before he died. All of his children were there. All 6 kids got to spend time with him before he died. It was an amazing and wonderful thing to see. His children love him and respect him so very much. Pete was a good man, a good husband, a good dad, a good, faithful Catholic. I watched his children care for him, love him, cry as he suffered. I watched as they prayed with him and for him. I watched them love their mother, who was losing her love of almost 60 years. I saw the love they have for each other. I saw the legacy of this good man. He taught these fine people to love, to have faith, to care for each other.

It is a very difficult thing to watch someone you love die.

I hope and pray I am blessed enough to die like Pete did. It was a blessed death. He had the sacraments, the last rights, confession, he had communion several times, he had priests come to see him and say mass at his bedside. His children prayed. They prayed the rosary, the chaplet of Divine Mercy. They prayed for a happy death for their dad. They laughed with him while he was still able and they cried when he no longer could carry on a conversation. They cried because they knew they were losing their father. They cried because he suffered. They cried because their life was changing too. They cried because they knew they would miss him so much.

Pete died the way we all pray to die. He was prepared, he was ready to meet Jesus.

He was a good man, a good father, a good husband, a good grand father, a good, faithful Catholic.
He was a good father in law. I loved him. I will miss him too. He was my father in law for almost 32 years. I have known him since I was 15 years old. He was a huge part of my life. He was indeed like a father to me.

Rest in Peace my dear friend, rest in peace.

Saturday, July 3, 2010

BEYOND IMPRESSIONISM: Van Gogh, Gauguin, Monet




Bede and I met Joanna at the Joslyn Art Museum in Omaha today. Their current exhibit includes many American Impressionists as well as the masters...Van Gogh, Gauguin, and Claude Monet. It is awesome. Inspiring, I want to paint!
Too much to see, we need to go back again. Can't believe we waited 8 years to find this place!

Then we had a late lunch with our newly married daughter at Bent fork cafe in Omaha. Great food with a cowboy twist...right up Bede's alley.



wonderful day

Saturday, June 26, 2010

Wedding fog...





Hey y'all...I've been a long time gone. Just now coming out of my wedding fog. YES! there is such a thing. During the last few weeks, maybe months even, my world has become smaller than usual. My world was focused on dresses, food, decorations, housecleaning, flowers,etc., etc., etc. I stopped watching the news, stopped reading the paper...it just didn't matter for a while. My world revolved around my daughter's wedding. She has been married for 1 week now. I am just becoming a citizen of the world again. I highly recommend to any and all parents of the bride to do what I did...take a week off AFTER the wedding. I had very little to drink ( alcoholic beverages) at the wedding, and yet I felt as if I had an hangover for days after the wedding. It was just Thursday that I finally began to think clearly again. So many emotions, so many people to talk to, so many relatives to hug and catch up with. So surreal!. So unlike my normal life. This is such a life changing experience. I knew it would be for the bride and groom. but now I have experienced it from the mother of the bride perspective. It has changed my life. first and foremost, my only daughter is now married and will forever be gone from my life as my baby girl.
She is now the wife of a fine young man and an independent women. That in itself is enough to make a grown woman cry. Then there are the hundreds of family and friends we entertained over the week of the wedding. So many loved ones, some young, some old. Some we may not see again.
All loved us enough to spend time and money to come from all over the U.S. to celebrate this blessed event with us. How lucky we are. How blessed we are. Both families were supportive and loving. Everyone was here to show their love for the bride and groom.

I know, as the MOB (mother of the bride), I am not objective...but it was the most beautiful wedding in the history of weddings. Bede wore his dress mess. Joanna was radiant...more than radiant. Andy was the epitome of the loving groom. I was walked down the aisle by my 2 sons, Bede Jr. and Andrew. How more proud could I be? Thank you my dear Lord. You have filled my heart with so much love it can do nothing but overflow. It overflows in tears of joy. I am the luckiest woman in the world. This is what life is all about. Grandparents, parents and children...even grandchildren. All together, celebrating life and the continuous love that we share.

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Read it and Weep!!!

Ok...I don't like to say "I told you so", but...I TOLD YOU SO! So many, many people knew this would would be the end result of Obama care. Please read the following article, especially the last paragraph. We cannot afford to be the people who do not realize the cost. It will cost us our way of life. We will end up paying for "free" health care. We'll be highly taxed and then still have to pay for Dr. visits and perhaps procedures considered elective, like hip replacements and pacemakers. If you are a baby boomer like me, you need to stand up and say no, no, NO! NO! NO!!!! There are a lot of us and we must use our voice. We are the ones who will have to make significant choices regarding our health care in the future. If you are one of those who believed "free" health care for all was a good idea, please think again. This is our future, unless we demand congress rethink this whole health care thing.

This is not the HOPE AND CHANGE anyone was looking for.



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TORONTO (Reuters) – Pressured by an aging population and the need to rein in budget deficits, Canada's provinces are taking tough measures to curb healthcare costs, a trend that could erode the principles of the popular state-funded system.

Ontario, Canada's most populous province, kicked off a fierce battle with drug companies and pharmacies when it said earlier this year it would halve generic drug prices and eliminate "incentive fees" to generic drug manufacturers.

British Columbia is replacing block grants to hospitals with fee-for-procedure payments and Quebec has a new flat health tax and a proposal for payments on each medical visit -- an idea that critics say is an illegal user fee.

And a few provinces are also experimenting with private funding for procedures such as hip, knee and cataract surgery.

It's likely just a start as the provinces, responsible for delivering healthcare, cope with the demands of a retiring baby-boom generation. Official figures show that senior citizens will make up 25 percent of the population by 2036.

"There's got to be some change to the status quo whether it happens in three years or 10 years," said Derek Burleton, senior economist at Toronto-Dominion Bank.

"We can't continually see health spending growing above and beyond the growth rate in the economy because, at some point, it means crowding out of all the other government services.

"At some stage we're going to hit a breaking point."

MIRROR IMAGE DEBATE

In some ways the Canadian debate is the mirror image of discussions going on in the United States.

Canada, fretting over budget strains, wants to prune its system, while the United States, worrying about an army of uninsured, aims to create a state-backed safety net.

Healthcare in Canada is delivered through a publicly funded system, which covers all "medically necessary" hospital and physician care and curbs the role of private medicine. It ate up about 40 percent of provincial budgets, or some C$183 billion ($174 billion) last year.

Spending has been rising 6 percent a year under a deal that added C$41.3 billion of federal funding over 10 years.



But that deal ends in 2013, and the federal government is unlikely to be as generous in future, especially for one-off projects.

"As Ottawa looks to repair its budget balance ... one could see these one-time allocations to specific health projects might be curtailed," said Mary Webb, senior economist at Scotia Capital.

Brian Golden, a professor at University of Toronto's Rotman School of Business, said provinces are weighing new sources of funding, including "means-testing" and moving toward evidence-based and pay-for-performance models.

"Why are we paying more or the same for cataract surgery when it costs substantially less today than it did 10 years ago? There's going to be a finer look at what we're paying for and, more importantly, what we're getting for it," he said.

Other problems include trying to control independently set salaries for top hospital executives and doctors and rein in spiraling costs for new medical technologies and drugs.

Ontario says healthcare could eat up 70 percent of its budget in 12 years, if all these costs are left unchecked.

"Our objective is to preserve the quality healthcare system we have and indeed to enhance it. But there are difficult decisions ahead and we will continue to make them," Ontario Finance Minister Dwight Duncan told Reuters.

The province has introduced legislation that ties hospital chief executive pay with the quality of patient care and says it wants to put more physicians on salary to save money.

In a report released last week, TD Bank said Ontario should consider other proposals to help cut costs, including scaling back drug coverage for affluent seniors and paying doctors according to quality and efficiency of care.

WINNERS AND LOSERS

The losers could be drug companies and pharmacies, both of which are getting increasingly nervous.

"Many of the advances in healthcare and life expectancy are due to the pharmaceutical industry so we should never demonize them," said U of T's Golden. "We need to ensure that they maintain a profitable business but our ability to make it very very profitable is constrained right now."

Scotia Capital's Webb said one cost-saving idea may be to make patients aware of how much it costs each time they visit a healthcare professional. "(The public) will use the services more wisely if they know how much it's costing," she said.

"If it's absolutely free with no information on the cost and the information of an alternative that would be have been more practical, then how can we expect the public to wisely use the service?"

But change may come slowly. Universal healthcare is central to Canada's national identity, and decisions are made as much on politics as economics.

"It's an area that Canadians don't want to see touched," said TD's Burleton. "Essentially it boils down the wishes of the population. But I think, from an economist's standpoint, we point to the fact that sometimes Canadians in the short term may not realize the cost."

($1=$1.05 Canadian)

(Reporting by Claire Sibonney; editing by Janet Guttsman and Peter Galloway)

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Tuesday, June 1, 2010


We are Rockin and Rollin here in Lincoln. Lots of thunder and lightening. 1st big storm of the season.

Sunday, May 16, 2010




Bede and I spent the day working in the yard Saturday. We finally had a beautiful day after lots of cool, wet weather. Bede worked on the front of the old shed. Then put in a little brick patio in front of it. Just a coat of paint and it will look like new. After a job well done, he relaxed on the front porch with a cigar. Today the weather is awful. Have not gotten out of the 50s and we've had a light rain all day. The garden will love it, but I'm disappointed we can't be out in it!






Wednesday, May 12, 2010

DIY Project

We have been looking for replacement lighting for the front of our house for a couple of years. I have never found anything I really liked that was affordable. So after looking again last weekend at one of the local home improvement stores I decided that I really liked the shape of the ones we had and decided to try to spruce them up. So with a can of spray paint I was on my way. I've seen enough home improvement shows to know the first thing to do was turn off the breaker for the area I was working in. Then I took the old lights down, taped up the glass and painted. They came out pretty well. The spray paint cost less than $6.00 and that was the only expense. We had the tape already from a previous project. I'm really happy with the lights, they look like new. the amazing thing is that when I reconnected them...they actually worked!







Thursday, May 6, 2010

Grandpa's garden

The last couple of years we have been planting irises from Pete's garden in Idaho. This is the first year we have had mature flowers. It's a wonderful feeling to know we have a little bit of grandpa right here in Lincoln NE. Every time we look at them we think of Pete and Joleen in Idaho. These are the plants he put in the ground and cared for. Now they are adding beauty to our yard. Our goal is to have many more and share with other family members so we all share in grandpa's garden.




Lincoln half marathon

Bede and Joanna, along with Andy, Nicky, Leah and Kate ran the Lincoln Half marathon last Sunday. The"Hotel Bolin" was open for business the night before for friends from out of town to get a good night's sleep before the marathon. The runners were all up and ready to go by 5am and out the door by 6. After the run they were treated to a breakfast of pancakes, bacon, eggs, sausage, and biscuits with gravy. That was the least I could do while they were running their hearts out... Lots of sore legs and tired feet, but great satisfaction for a job well done. Congrats to all who ran.





Fun Times

Joanna had a shower in the KC area at the end of April.3 great ladies threw it for her. They are moms of her good friends. Thanks to Leslie, Pat and Ginger for a wonderful day.

Friday, April 30, 2010

Ah, the wisdom of the UN...


The United Nations just elected Iran to the Commission on the Status of women.
Why am I not surprised?

Here are just a few reasons why this is pure insanity.
Although par for the course for the UN.



"Many women who do not dress modestly ... lead young men astray, corrupt their chastity and spread adultery in society, which (consequently) increases earthquakes," said the respected cleric, Hojatoleslam Kazem Sedighi.

Suntanned women are defying Islamic values and will be arrested, an Iranian police chief said, according to The Telegraph.

Under Iranian law, women must be covered from head to toe.

Article 49 (Iranian penal code)exempts children from punishment. Addendum 1 to this article defines a child as someone before puberty. But in the civil law puberty for boys is 15 and for girls 9 lunar years (article 1210, addendum 1). So girls come of age for punishments six years before boys. This is particularly striking since in everything else such as inheritance, custody over children, marriage, divorce, ownership, travel, giving witness etc women are considered delicate creatures in need of protection by men. But when it comes to being punished, suddenly they are more mature and responsible for their actions. Less rights, more punishment. One can imagine a situation where a boy of 14 and a girl of 9 steal. According to the law she would lose four fingers of her right hand for first offence (article 201), her left foot for the second offence, prison for third and execution for the fourth! He would go scott free.

The husband is designated the head of the household by law.23 A woman is legally obliged to be obedient to her husband.24 A woman cannot leave the country without her husband’s approval.25 A man may take more than one wife.26 A man may prohibit his wife from employment.27 A man has undisputed and unequivocal rights to divorce his wife.28 In cases of divorce, the legal custody of the child is with the mother up to the age of seven, and thereafter is determined by the court.29 The management and supervision of the affairs of children below the age of 18 is by their father or paternal grandfather, and the mother has no legal say in the matter.30 Should the father pass away, the guardianship lies with the paternal grandfather, not with the mother.31 A daughter’s inheritance is only half that of a son’s.32 Departure from the country for children below the age of 18 is possible only with the approval of the father or the paternal grandfather—the mother has no legal say in the matter.33 Citizenship of the children is that of the child’s father.34 A Muslim man can marry a non-Muslim woman in Iran, and the children of such marriage are considered Muslim. But a non-Muslim man does not have the right to marry a Muslim woman unless he has converted to Islam before his marriage.

Saturday, April 17, 2010

Spring....finally!!!

Sitting on the front porch. Every little breeze brings the scent of blossoms. Little bit of heaven right here on earth.


Bede is out doing dandelion duty, so I'm not sure he agrees with me.